A rule that applies to everyone except the person enforcing it is not a principle; it is a double standard. For example: This kind of behavior quickly damages trust. The problem is not simply that the person made a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes. The problem is that they create one standard for themselves and another … Read more
Have you ever felt completely drained after leaving a conversation replaying every word, wondering if you said too much, felt too much, or simply were too much for the room? Highly sensitive people often feel like outsiders not because something is wrong with them, but because the world around them was not built with their … Read more
The story begins at a small railway station in Pietermaritzburg, South Africa. A common man, despite holding a valid first-class ticket, was thrown off a train. His crime? God given him birth in a brown family. A white police constable forcibly pushed him out into the cold night, simply because he did not carry the … Read more
Why People Display Bad Behaviour in the First Place Sometimes, they are simply repeating the toxic behavior they witnessed growing up in their families. In other cases, insecurity and low self-esteem drive them to put others down in order to feel superior. Understanding this helps you realize that their behavior is a reflection of their … Read more
Have you ever noticed how some people feel the need to correct, control, or silence others in every situation? At first, it may look like confidence. Like leadership. Like experience speaking. But if we look closely, this constant urge to dominate often hides something much deeper—an unspoken struggle with self-worth. Sometimes, in an attempt to … Read more
Have You Ever Felt the Fear of Loss? Fear is a natural and intense emotion. It arises from the feeling of danger, harm, or pain—whether that threat is real or imagined.But there is a particular kind of fear that does not come from what is happening around us. It comes from what our mind imagines might happen. … Read more
Why do we spend our whole life trying to control things that were never in our control?
Look at how fragile you are! Easily torn apart. Yet, the ego you hold is monstrous and unacceptable, You twist the heart of one who holds you,turning him arrogant, boastful, and heartless. You have become the measure of a person’s worth, You sow hatred among friends and kin. You make them kneel and beg at … Read more
A thought we all struggle with at some point in our life is -“Why can’t people like me?”
A thought we all struggle with at some point in our life is -“Why can’t people like me?”