When Feet start paining,
When eyes turn red,
When frown isn’t ready to leave your head,
Acknowledge that it is not the pursuit of superiority ,
It’s superiority complex.
To be honest everybody wants to get successful in this world and there’s nothing wrong in it as well, until the term called “at any cost comes within it”.
This Life is not a race , it’s a journey of ups and downs where we learn a lot by making mistakes sometimes and try to correct them at other times but the option we don’t get here is ‘Quitting’ .
Recognition from others is a part of Superiority complex where we lose our freedom of living our life for ourselves and even lose our identity just for the sake of being someone whom other’s want , then in this course it’s not we who are living but an image of illusion created by society.
Which is just like a cup of Coffee, in which some prefer extra sugar, some prefer extra milk and some like to take it black.
So according to Adlerian psychology “contribution to society” is no doubt an important factor for giving meaning to life but that contribution should not be based on the factor of recognition from others.
In fact it’s not a Give and take relationship of contribution, it’s a relation of giving for your own peace and happiness.
True Freedom is in acceptance of who you are!
